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		<title>By: James &#124; Dancing Geek</title>
		<link>http://dancing-geek.co.uk/personal-mumblings/connecting-with-others/i-need-accountability/comment-page-1#comment-307</link>
		<dc:creator>James &#124; Dancing Geek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 15:05:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Charlie - &quot;Whether or not munchkins ever go away is a substantive psycho-metaphysical question&quot;.  Oh Charlie, I love it when you get all intellectual. :P

Thanks for the giggle.

Check out the &lt;a href=&quot;http://dancing-geek.co.uk/being-in-the-process/talking-to-my-munchkin&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;conversation with my Munchkin&lt;/a&gt; if you&#039;re interested in finding out more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Charlie &#8211; &#8220;Whether or not munchkins ever go away is a substantive psycho-metaphysical question&#8221;.  Oh Charlie, I love it when you get all intellectual. <img src='http://dancing-geek.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for the giggle.</p>
<p>Check out the <a href="http://dancing-geek.co.uk/being-in-the-process/talking-to-my-munchkin" rel="nofollow">conversation with my Munchkin</a> if you&#8217;re interested in finding out more.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
		<link>http://dancing-geek.co.uk/personal-mumblings/connecting-with-others/i-need-accountability/comment-page-1#comment-306</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Joely: Talking to the negative part of yourself? Who on earth would ever want to do that? Slay it!

Of course, you know I&#039;m kidding. The language I used was unfortunate, but the thrust is the same: we need to know more about the munchkin before we can either make it go away (SLAY IT FTW!!) or have it inform us what&#039;s going on inside of us so that we can sit with that part of ourselves and let it be (put your swords away, boys - it&#039;s tea time).

Whether or not munchkins ever go away is a substantive psycho-metaphysical question that we&#039;ll save for another day.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Charlie’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/zxlcaMi8PO0/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Beyond Productivity: Living From The Inside Out (Episode 5)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Joely: Talking to the negative part of yourself? Who on earth would ever want to do that? Slay it!</p>
<p>Of course, you know I&#8217;m kidding. The language I used was unfortunate, but the thrust is the same: we need to know more about the munchkin before we can either make it go away (SLAY IT FTW!!) or have it inform us what&#8217;s going on inside of us so that we can sit with that part of ourselves and let it be (put your swords away, boys &#8211; it&#8217;s tea time).</p>
<p>Whether or not munchkins ever go away is a substantive psycho-metaphysical question that we&#8217;ll save for another day.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Charlie’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/zxlcaMi8PO0/" rel="nofollow">Beyond Productivity: Living From The Inside Out (Episode 5)</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: James &#124; Dancing Geek</title>
		<link>http://dancing-geek.co.uk/personal-mumblings/connecting-with-others/i-need-accountability/comment-page-1#comment-305</link>
		<dc:creator>James &#124; Dancing Geek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 23:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@chas - oh I can manage that!

@UP - me, try too hard, never!  Always enjoy hearing new techniques, if only to see if it&#039;s something that I can pick up quickly, rather than be another stick to beat myself with.

@Joely - yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.  As you were writing this comment I was actually sat next to my laptop (turned off) doing just that.  It was very, very awesome.  Thank you for this wonderful prompt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@chas &#8211; oh I can manage that!</p>
<p>@UP &#8211; me, try too hard, never!  Always enjoy hearing new techniques, if only to see if it&#8217;s something that I can pick up quickly, rather than be another stick to beat myself with.</p>
<p>@Joely &#8211; yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.  As you were writing this comment I was actually sat next to my laptop (turned off) doing just that.  It was very, very awesome.  Thank you for this wonderful prompt.</p>
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		<title>By: Joely Black</title>
		<link>http://dancing-geek.co.uk/personal-mumblings/connecting-with-others/i-need-accountability/comment-page-1#comment-304</link>
		<dc:creator>Joely Black</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 13:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What about, rather than slaying that munchkin, having a chat with it? Maybe it wants to be heard. Maybe it&#039;s trying to protect you from hurt. Maybe you should embrace it, and thank it for all the hard work it&#039;s doing!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Joely Black’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://isabeljoelyblack.wordpress.com/2009/01/26/thoughts-about-from-some-artwork-on-the-fear-of-finishing/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Thoughts from some artwork on the fear of finishing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What about, rather than slaying that munchkin, having a chat with it? Maybe it wants to be heard. Maybe it&#8217;s trying to protect you from hurt. Maybe you should embrace it, and thank it for all the hard work it&#8217;s doing!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Joely Black’s last blog post..<a href="http://isabeljoelyblack.wordpress.com/2009/01/26/thoughts-about-from-some-artwork-on-the-fear-of-finishing/" rel="nofollow">Thoughts from some artwork on the fear of finishing</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Urban Panther</title>
		<link>http://dancing-geek.co.uk/personal-mumblings/connecting-with-others/i-need-accountability/comment-page-1#comment-303</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Panther</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 11:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tend to agree with chas. Keep it simple. It is amazing what bubbles to the surface when we are doing mundane chores like the dishes.
However, I do have some excellent unblocking techniques, which I can share with you.

I think the key is to not try so hard. Sometimes we get our knickers in a knot about having our knickers in a knot.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Urban Panther’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.urbanpantherslair.com/2009/01/failures-in-the-medical-profession.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Failures in the medical profession&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tend to agree with chas. Keep it simple. It is amazing what bubbles to the surface when we are doing mundane chores like the dishes.<br />
However, I do have some excellent unblocking techniques, which I can share with you.</p>
<p>I think the key is to not try so hard. Sometimes we get our knickers in a knot about having our knickers in a knot.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Urban Panther’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.urbanpantherslair.com/2009/01/failures-in-the-medical-profession.html" rel="nofollow">Failures in the medical profession</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: chas</title>
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		<dc:creator>chas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 03:40:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>keep it simple james! do the dishes!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;chas’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.creative-lifestyles.com/monday-morning-motivator-9-one-day-itll-blow-a-hole-in-our-heads/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;monday morning motivator! 9, one day it’ll blow a hole in our heads&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>keep it simple james! do the dishes!</p>
<p><abbr><em>chas’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.creative-lifestyles.com/monday-morning-motivator-9-one-day-itll-blow-a-hole-in-our-heads/" rel="nofollow">monday morning motivator! 9, one day it’ll blow a hole in our heads</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: James &#124; Dancing Geek</title>
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		<dc:creator>James &#124; Dancing Geek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 02:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Charlie - if I knew what it was, I&#039;d tell ya!

@chas - old business...hmmm.  Ok, I can try that.  *struggle, struggle, yuck, resistance*  Hmmm, may not be easy.  But I wanted a direction and now I&#039;ve got one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Charlie &#8211; if I knew what it was, I&#8217;d tell ya!</p>
<p>@chas &#8211; old business&#8230;hmmm.  Ok, I can try that.  *struggle, struggle, yuck, resistance*  Hmmm, may not be easy.  But I wanted a direction and now I&#8217;ve got one.</p>
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		<title>By: chas</title>
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		<dc:creator>chas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 02:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how strange...another charles to the rescue!

i would love to see you just take care of some old business, whatever it is. clean out a closet, balance a checkbook, sweep under the bed...whatever...

just get yourself into the flow of taking care of old business. something is holding you back...turn around and see if you can catch a glimpse of it!

peace,

chas

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;chas’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.creative-lifestyles.com/monday-morning-motivator-9-one-day-itll-blow-a-hole-in-our-heads/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;monday morning motivator! 9, one day it’ll blow a hole in our heads&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how strange&#8230;another charles to the rescue!</p>
<p>i would love to see you just take care of some old business, whatever it is. clean out a closet, balance a checkbook, sweep under the bed&#8230;whatever&#8230;</p>
<p>just get yourself into the flow of taking care of old business. something is holding you back&#8230;turn around and see if you can catch a glimpse of it!</p>
<p>peace,</p>
<p>chas</p>
<p><abbr><em>chas’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.creative-lifestyles.com/monday-morning-motivator-9-one-day-itll-blow-a-hole-in-our-heads/" rel="nofollow">monday morning motivator! 9, one day it’ll blow a hole in our heads</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 01:59:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We gotta name the demon before we can slay it. What are you dancing around?

Trusting yourself?
Failure?
Other people laughing?
Not living up to what you want to be?
Not knowing what the future will bring (i.e. uncertainty?)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Charlie’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/zaqEKc3_ars/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jingling Our Lives Away&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We gotta name the demon before we can slay it. What are you dancing around?</p>
<p>Trusting yourself?<br />
Failure?<br />
Other people laughing?<br />
Not living up to what you want to be?<br />
Not knowing what the future will bring (i.e. uncertainty?)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Charlie’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/zaqEKc3_ars/" rel="nofollow">Jingling Our Lives Away</a></em></abbr></p>
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