Kill the to-do list – a nice way to get stuff done

Monday, September 29th, 2008
Do note by Paul Watson

Do note by Paul Watson

This post is inspired by a twitter friend (there’s got to be a flashy Web 2.0 shorthand for that) who posted “To-do lists make me feel guilty – out out damn to-dos!!”

To do lists are evil

I hate to do lists. I either put too much on them and feel guilty about not getting it done. Or feel bad because it looks so small when I manage to put just a good day’s list of work down.

Whatever I do with them, they sit there and every time I see them they suck my energy.

My problem with to do lists

Having read around various productivity blogs and books I realised that the only way I would do a to do item was if it took like zero effort, however I would quickly get sick of breaking down every project into tiny, tiny steps – for I am lazy. What I needed was motivation, and since I love completing projects the one thing that really motivates me is the thought of finishing something.

An alternative to to-do lists

This actually came about from trying to keep track of all the different projects that I love to have on the go. I realised that I would start to feel overwhelmed and not know where to start, so I needed a quick way to record what I had going on and what needed doing. This managed to organically turn itself into something that actually helps me get things moving without hanging around and making me feel bad.

How to make my “it’s not a to do” list

  • Take a sheet of paper, and make 3 columns, one small then two large.
  • In the first column write the name of the project or worry or thought that you want to capture and get moving on.
  • In the last column right what it will be like when that worry has been resolved/project completed/task done – the motivation bit
  • In the middle column right something that will move you forward on this and feels like something you could do right now

The last part is the key part. I found that just writing these out made me feel clear-headed and less panicky and that I then started to want to get a few of these little jobs done, not because I ought to or because I had to but because I could see that they would move me closer to what I really wanted and so I wanted to do them.

Keeping it going

This is only useful if you can turn it into a system that you can follow over time, so here’s what I do to make it work for me.

  • Keep the pages and pages of ‘friendly’ to do lists in a folder. I use a nice bright yellow one, it’s cheery from the get go
  • Review it when you feel like getting something done. I only look at the folder when I’m looking for something constructive to get done, I hate the idea of doing something because I ought. If I’ve done some tasks since I last looked then I’ll cross them out, write new ones, and see which I feel like doing. Fortunately, with so many projects on the go, there’s usually at least one or two that I fancy having a play with.

So what do you think? Just another to do list, or something that you might find helpful? Please let me know in the comments below.

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8 comments

 1 

Good for you for finding a system that works especially one that goes against the normal systems.

I, however, need need lists. I have no task memory and if I don’t write things down, I’m f*cked – I even forget to eat lunch if I get busy with other projects.

October 1st, 2008 at 4:39 am
 2 

I can totally relate on the whole missing meals thing – but only if I get really into whatever I’m doing. Food is very important to me :)

I should admit that I do keep a diary as well, so if there’s any date specific tasks or deadlines, they will go in there so that I have a list some days of things that I have to do that day. So I’ve not exactly killed the to do list, but I hate having a long list of stuff I can get to whenever – that really saps my energy. So if it’s in my diary it’s because I really want to get it done that day. If I’ve free time then I can choose relaxing or working on a project.

I tried to simplify the post a bit just to show a different way of working because it’s not something I’ve seen anywhere else and I find it so useful.

October 1st, 2008 at 1:53 pm
elliotross:
 3 

“nspired by a twitter friend (there’s got to be a flashy Web 2.0 shorthand for that)”

A Twit

October 1st, 2008 at 7:59 pm
Lisa:
 4 

I like lists. I have a little post about lists: http://www.hitthosekeys.com/block.html#gpm1_2

But to-do lists can seriously suck. Instead, on the days when it seemed like I really didn’t get anything done, I write a “ta-done” list when the day is over. When I remember. I find out that I did more than I thought, or I find out what the big THING that was keeping me from getting stuff done actually was. FWIW.

October 1st, 2008 at 10:26 pm
 5 

@elliotross – Thanks! I can’t decide if it’s a very cool, ironic thing to call someone you’re just starting to get to know or whether it’s just a bad idea! Is there perhaps a slightly friendlier version?

@Lisa – I’m more of a let it go kind of person. If a day wasn’t so hot, there’s always tomorrow. But if reviewing the day can give you some insights then I definitely think I’m missing out here!

I love the idea of a to-do list with ‘compose ransom note’ on it. I almost want to write a story just so as I can make up some of those lists. :)

October 2nd, 2008 at 1:08 am
elliotross:
 6 

I could not resist :-)

tweet tweet twit twit !

October 2nd, 2008 at 1:14 am
Tzaddi:
 7 

Thanks James, I might try this. I generally like to-do lists but lately there are so many projects in my life + work that I’ve been having that overwhelmed feeling when thinking about some of them.

October 2nd, 2008 at 9:34 pm
 8 

Hi Tzaddi!

Yey! Validation in comment form! I’ll take any I can get. ;)

That overwhelmed feeling is what happens whenever I actually pay attention to what I want to get done in the world. Hence trying to find a system to turn it into something I can cope with. If you do try it, do let me know how it goes! You can get my email from Collective Biggification if you prefer.

October 4th, 2008 at 12:29 am

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